State officials have disavowed an advertising campaign that led to calls for an investigation of the agency that approved posters proclaiming that "South Carolina is so gay."
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So what's the problem? Is So. Carolina afraid that gay people will come there and "turn" everyone gay? How pathetic...Get over it homophobes.
- 19 votes
Well, Jackie 911: At least you stayed away from name calling.
- 7 votes
I feel pretty,
Oh, so pretty,
I feel pretty, and witty and gay,
- 5 votes
90% of pedophilia is done to little girls by grown men, often relatives. Pedophilia has nothing to do with a loving, committed same sex relationship or even a casual, consenting, same sex relationship. Neither does rape. Rape and pedophila are acts of power, not of love. They are hate crimes where a penis is used as a weapon.
The most homophobic people are closeted homosexuals. They are people who suspect that they are gay or have same sex feelings but are so afraid of them they can't admit them, even to themselves. J. Edgar Hoover, one of the most racist of all public officials and head of the FBI was a closet homosexual who had a life partner and cross dressed.
Heterosexuals who are confident in their own sexuality do not consider homosexuals a threat. I had a VERY straight friend whose best friend and confidante was his gay cousin. He was so straight that he had a "Chicktionary" of girls he had sex with that had over 100 names and phone numbers. He passed it on to another guy when he got married.
Look at all these hypocritical right wing "family values" politicians who have been caught with their pants down with another man. They just protest too much. A speechwriter for the leader of the hate group, Focus on the Family, James Dobson, got caught in a gay bar a few years ago. He went through "rehabilitation" so he could keep his job and then got caught again. The founders of Exodus International, the original "ex-gay" group that taught gay men to deny who they were and abstain from gay sex fell in love with each other and quit the organization.
Homosexuality cannot be cured because it is not a mental illness and not a behavior problem. It is who a person is. That is why it cannot be fixed---because there is not anything wrong.
Jackie 911, I suggest that, if you consider yourself a Christian, you visit or go online and find a Metropolitan Community Church or visit a United Methodist Church that is part of the Reconciling Congregation Program or a More Light Presbyterian USA Church. Most denominations with the exception of Southern Baptist and Church of God have gay coalitions. The Southern Baptists even have moderate congregations but they are hard to locate.
Stop criticizing what you don't know.
I will pray for you Jackie. Jesus cannot live in a heart that hates and whether you acknowledge it or not, you are a hater.
- 11 votes
Dear Jackie 911,
As a 2-year Sunday School Teacher from a ultra-conservative community and having read Dante's Inferno, Paradise Lost, the entire Bible, and a multitude of other interpretations, I can safely say that your opinion is not an opinion. It is defined, according to Merriam-Websters, as bigotry. Why is it a mental illness? Over 200 independent studies, including ones from Stanford University, Northwestern University, and Johns Hopkins Universities, have found it to be a typical behavior without an attachment to mental illness. Heterosexuals are also more likely to be pedophiles than gays are (NY Times study). Also, saying they are "perverse because they are perverse," is not an argument. We in the debate business refer to it as circular logic, and it is the most failsafe way to guarantee yourself a loss in any intellectual debate.
So, if you support religion as your basis:
"Treat others as you wish to be treated." That is the basis of Christianity, as any realitic pastor or minister will tell you.
If you support law as your basis:
-California Supreme Court Decision, 2008
-14th Amendment of the United States
-Precedent in Interracial Couples
-Precedent in Inter-class Couples
-Precedent in Inter-caste Couples
A rose by any other name would smell as sweet. Call it sick. Because I'll stick with rationality, religosity, kindness, compassion, and an informed decision. If you do not agree, then don't agree. But find out why you don't. Because all objective and subjective standards do not support you. I am straight, but I know all people deserve to be treated with some level of respect. They already have it tough enough. No-one would choose to be gay. Not with people like you out there. So think on it a bit. I beg of you.
- 13 votes
I feel pretty,
Oh, so pretty,
I feel pretty, and witty and gay!!!
- 4 votes
I am surprised by how many of the comments have nothing to do with the article in question. Does everything have to be a debate on what being gay means. Do we still have people that haven't gotten the clue that there are some things in life there is no choice over? When is the right-wing going to remember that we all have the right to worship God or our left foot the way we believe? How long will it take for the bible-thumpers to learn from the Bible that their moral decisions are decisions for themselves alone? Judge not lest ye be judged. My morals may not match your, but don't make me live by yours. God will at least judge us individually by how we lived our lives.
S. Carolina doesn't like gay money. That was the article. I guess they haven't gotten with the times. Do they still have white only water fountains, too?
- 7 votes
all you need do, is read your instruction booklet for life. ( everything comes with instructions ) radios , tvs etc. and even your life. we call your instruction booklet , the bible.
read your instructions for life and see what they say about homosexuals:
Homosexuality is an illicit lust forbidden by God. He said to His people Israel, "Thou shalt not lie with mankind, as with womankind: it is abomination" (Leviticus 18:22). "If a man also lie with mankind, as he lieth with a woman, both of them have committed an abomination: they shall surely be put to death; their blood shall be upon them" (Leviticus 20:13). In these passages homosexuality is condemned as a prime example of sin, a sexual perversion. The Christian can neither alter God's viewpoint nor depart from it.
and you can draw your own conclusion about homosexuals ( they shall surely be put to death ) works for me.
- 4 votes
Your "instruction booklet" is not relevant to a majority of the people on earth.
- 11 votes
the "bible has also been used as an excuse to slaughter millions of innocent jews and the enslavement and persecution of african americans. Historically Christianity itself, has been responsible for the slaughter of more men women and children than all the other religions combined. Also Laviticus is a SET of rules for that particular society of that time.
All the rules were meant to be adhered too not just the one you state. I suggest you get your head out of your..... and read them all and then us me you have adheared to them.
Meanwhile your self righteous rhetoric is an example of a powerless weak coward.
- 8 votes
Rhonda,
The Catholic priests liked little boys! Also, a scout master here in Washington who is homosexual molested many many boys and is in prison. It just isn't true that pedophiles are always or even usually men assaulting little girls.
- 3 votes
Marie, re-read the comment regarding pedophilia...it said 90% percent of pedophiles were acts perpetrated by older males against young/younger girls, not 100%. Remember, it takes only a few "bad" apples to spoil a bunch...sorta like how the most vociferous anti-gay, anti-sex-ed, anti-anything not in the Bible Christians are giving a bad name to a good religion.
As for the Bible...it was written FOR the Jewish/Hebrew/Isareli people BY the Jewish/Hebrew/Isareli (not sure what's the accepted name for them anymore) people...also, there's alot more to it than just the King James Version (and the other "versions" that are either in whole or in part based off of the KJV). Do a little bit of research on the origins of the Bible, by using a true historical research source. Try Wikipedia, or take a class of non-partisan(is that the phrase to use?) religious studies and religious history. Learn what was taken out, what was changed and what was left in. And why it was done.
- 3 votes
"If a man also lie with mankind, as he lieth with a woman, both of them have committed an abomination: they shall surely be put to death; their blood
Joe— Joe I gave you a vote because this is a good representation of how this `God` thinks.
If this doesn`t show what a true road to a `Hitler` type society is then by all means accept and glorify a `God` who accepts his own 1st born (who was conceived by unmarried sex) as a sacrfice.
"this is a good representation of how this `God` thinks."
In defense of the Bible, we have to remember that this was written by men, who, technically, were fallible.
- 1 vote
I think that heterosexuals have the right to put up billboards of half naked women and no one seems to care. Is there an uproar about that? No!!! Let them have their billboard and if no one wants to visit South Carolina because of that then they are missing out because of their simple mindedness.
I just came back from South Carolina and I for one think that it is a beautiful State.
well, while families might be nice to have visit...gay people actually spend money!! and since when is a gay person not part of a family!! get over it!! you people are ridiculous!!
- 1 vote
What has happened to our country. We have allowed special interest groups destroy us from within. How can we outlaw polygamy but allow gays to run ramped. At this rate, polygamy, pedophilia, and sex with animals will be completely acceptable in 20 years. I am ashamed of what my country has become. Wont let my kids join military and fight for these morals, no way. America is full of spineless, weak minded, try and make everyone happy (even if they are wrong) idiots. God HELP America.
What a stubid issue. This political correctness is out of control.
Calling people homo phobes is a stupid remark also.
It translates to being afraid of homosexuals.
No one is afraid of them.They just don't like them and that is their right.
Now we have the thought police.
Who cares what they like to do as long as they don't impose it on me or mine.
I actually feel sorry for them.
- 6 votes
Gosh Happy you're really smart! Thanks for the primer on the meaning of homo phobes [sic].
- 3 votes
No one is afraid of them.They just don't like them and that is their right.
Bigotry is rooted in fear.
- 2 votes
"Bigotry is rooted in fear." Maybe so, but this isn't bigotry. He just doesn't like being around gay people and that is his right. Some people don't like red heads. They aren't afraid of them--just don't like that color of hair. Some people don't like loud people or people who are too quiet or bossy people or you name it.
He has a right to dislike Homosexuals--especially the flaming ones who disgust many of us!
That doesn't mean he or we fear them. Just don't like being around that kind of behavior which offends our sensibilities.
- 3 votes
Marie thomson, Bigotry is fear and it means fear of being around people who make you feel uncomfortable, like Black people make some people feel afraid and white people make some people feel uneasy because of the way they look and act .
So to say he has a right to dislike Homosexuals- that is Bigotry and has no place in this world because we all have problems of some kind at sometimes.
- 1 vote
Your bigotry offends me, marie... who cares? people like you make a living off being offended.
- 2 votes
I've never met a single individual in my life who didn't like people because they had red hair. That's absurd.
- 7 votes
I voted for you. Good thought.
Voted for Marie too.
Yes winsome you too. Even tho you had to know what she meant.
- 1 vote
I think I knew what she meant, but she was equating an implied intolerance of someone elses sexuality with an implied intolerance of a particular haircolor. I just found that odd. She meant, i could be mistaken obviously, that it is as natural to object to homosexuality on a personal level as it is to have a preference for or against redheads.
Which could stand on it's own if Maries posts throughout this topic were not centered mainly around 'attention' gay people get and her own compulsive observance of them when she comes across them, [or maybe just the more radiantly homosexual] Homosexuality offends Marie obviously a lot.
i don't think it's as shallow as preferring Blondes or Brunettes. i think this whole bitter thread is like a boil being lanced myself and wish for more tolerant days ahead.
I'm not gay, [I know this because I've experimented.....thousands of times---little joke there]
I don't have a pony in this race except there are people here who obviously hate other people here for no other reason but their sexual persuasion and while they are are not content to have their loving God throw these homosexuals into some fiery pit in good time they take it upon themselves to hate while hiding behind God. It's pretty transparent the haters are kinda broken as human beings. They kinda lack the compassion required to be effective human beings.
So i give into temptation and as a heterosexual I take part in these 'discussions' because it furthers me as a human being to stand up to angry people whose arguments are either biblical and arguably wrong, or center round anus's and how disgusting they are, which, when you try to balance that up against an individuals right to love whoever they wish, and cherish and honor them etc etc, is kinda transparently fixated.
There was some famous brit in the 19th century who was famously celibate because he refused to use the same organ he peed out of to procreate.
Good on him. Good on anyone who uses the bible also. People who hate people they have yet to meet are retarding themselves.
I am so @!$%#ing done here.
- 11 votes
I am ashamed to be an American. We have let special interest groups ruin our country. In 20 years, at this rate, pedophilia, polygamy, and sex with animals will be accepted as normal. I will never let my kids fight for this country, not a cause worth dying for. God HELP America.
- 3 votes
Shame on you! You won't let your children die for this country? A disgrace to all neo-cons!!
- 5 votes
This is just plain silly. The right wing conservative christians that are screaming about gays right now were screaming the exact same thing about blacks 40 years ago. Back then it was a horrible sin in the eyes of God for a black person and white person to get married. Now it's the gays that they have their sights on. It's quite interesting how conservative religious people can pick a line or two out of the bible to get themselves so worked up about, while omitting the many other guidelines written... such as eating shrimp being an 'abomination'
People just need to sit back and be happy with their own lives, without trying to destroy everyone elses' when it doesn't fit into their little ignorant box of beliefs.
- 9 votes
What a rediculous comparison; this is 2009 not the turn of the nineteen century. People don't choose to be gay anymore than you choose to be whatever you are. I am guessing you are gay and in the closet to have such perverse views you purport.
- 4 votes
I feel pretty,
Oh, so pretty,
I feel pretty, and witty and gay,
- 5 votes
Ya know Hitler hated gays too.Come on folks do you really want to be able to be associated in such a fashion with Nazis? I love how the conservatives of South Carolina are just oh so close to the viewpoints of groups such as Nazis and all those wonder full hate groups we claim to dis-like.
- 4 votes
I will never tolerate sex with animals, children, or men. You and I see eye to eye Sir
My partner (15 years of committed monogamy) and I had a bet, when we saw this thread, as to how many posts it would take for someone to get to the "sex with animals" bit. Cause that's pretty much where it always goes whenever there's a discussion about us. LMAO
I said less than 10, and I won. My partner, ever the optimist, hoped it would get to at least 20.
But then, of course, he won when he said we would be compared with pedophilia in less than 5. :-(
Seeing posts like Rhonda's gives me hope.
My partner and I thank you.
- 12 votes
Homosexuality is an illicit lust forbidden by God. He said to His people Israel, "Thou shalt not lie with mankind, as with womankind: it is abomination" (Leviticus 18:22). "If a man also lie with mankind, as he lieth with a woman, both of them have committed an abomination: they shall surely be put to death; their blood shall be upon them" (Leviticus 20:13). In these passages homosexuality is condemned as a prime example of sin, a sexual perversion. The Christian can neither alter God's viewpoint nor depart from it.
- 2 votes
Newsflash
~~ THERE IS A GOD!!!!!! It is just that some people just don't want to believe in Him because they would have to change there lifestyles!!!
- 3 votes
Absolutely and totally agree Joe-Joe 305925. And as a good Christian, I am careful to also never depart from these Leviticus (and other) passages...unless you're suggesting that some of Leviticus is okay, and other parts should be ignored. And, if so, who gets to decide? Based on what?
1. Leviticus 25:44 states that I may possess slaves, both male and female, provided they are purchased from neighboring nations. A friend of mine claims that this applies to Mexicans, but not Canadians. Can you clarify? Why can't I own Canadians?
2. I would like to sell my daughter into slavery, as sanctioned in Exodus 21:7. In this day and age, what do you think would be a fair price for her? (I'm pretty sure she's a virgin).
3. When I burn a bull on the altar as a sacrifice, I know it creates a pleasing odor for the Lord - Lev.1:9. The problem is, my neighbors. They claim the odor is not pleasing to them. Should I smite them?
4. I have a neighbor who insists on working on the Sabbath. Exodus 35:2. clearly states he should be put to death. Am I morally obligated to kill him myself, or should I ask the police to do it?
5. A friend of mine feels that even though eating shellfish is an abomination - Lev. 11:10, it is a lesser abomination than homosexuality. I don't agree. Can you settle this? Aren't there 'degrees' of abomination?
6. Lev.21:20 states that I may not approach the altar of God if I have a defect in my sight. I have to admit that I wear reading glasses. Does my vision have to be 20/20, or is there some wiggle-room here?
7. Most of my male friends get their hair trimmed, including the hair around their temples, even though this is expressly forbidden by Lev. 19:27. How should they die?
8. I know from Lev. 11:6-8 that touching the skin of a dead pig makes me unclean, but may I still play football if I wear gloves?
9. My uncle has a farm. He violates Lev.19:19 by planting two different crops in the same field, as does his wife by wearing garments made of two different kinds of thread (cotton/polyester blend). He also tends to curse and blaspheme a lot. Is it really necessary that we go to all the trouble of getting the whole town together to stone them? Lev.24:10-16. Couldn't we just burn them to death at a private family affair, like we do with people who sleep with their in-laws? (Lev. 20:14)
- 15 votes
THERE IS A GOD!!!!!! It is just that some people just don't want to believe in Him because they would have to change there lifestyles!!!
No. There isn't. Just some people cling to their belief in god because otherwise they'd have no other explanation for their mean-spirited hatefulness other than the simple fact that they are @!$%#s.
- 6 votes
In regard to the Biblical passages, namely Leviticus, according to some faiths in the Christian religion, the Old Testament was considered "Living Under The Law", and once Jesus Christ did his whole self-sacrifice/rise from the dead routine, Chrisitans are now "Living Under The Grace", which translates to he died for the sinful nature, making Old Testament "Law" irrelevant and unnecessary to follow. But, as I said previously, this all has to do with translation and personal belief.
- 1 vote
I will never tolerate sex with ... men.
So sex should be tolerated only between and among women?
how is anybody gonna procreate without having sex with men?
How exactly do you connect homosexuality to such disgracefull things such as pedophiles? Futhermore how would you not support your children going to fight for their homes? This country however flawed and broken as it may seem at times is still a hell of alot better then many places out there...go to darfur if you have any doubts...This makes me laugh Im not much of a patriot myself I don't take part in 4th of july or many other things...but ya know what.The minute that someone invades this country I am more then willing to grab a gun and fight to keep it alive. Reason being is that even if we fall down we still are built upon ideas that are worth dieing for..The people who started this counrty were rich white pompass slave holding ass holes but they were also great men because they built our home with the principal that if you make a mistake you can still go back and fix it. And our leader isn't all that more powerfull than the average joe..the president however rich is a bum looking towards the kindness of the people that he looks after...Now run and tell that..im not patriotic but im proud to be an american. and you shouldn't bad mouth your country cause for the most part the rest of the world already looks down upon us we don't need anyone on the home team doing the same.
Good for South Carolina!! I was planning a visit to Charleston in the fall and it s good to know that the state supports the right of straights to not have to witness PDA's between same sex couples.
In response to Marcy, I don't think one can be "turned" gay, but I, for one, can be very turned off by their sometimes inappropriate behavior...
- 4 votes
A question for you Barbara,
How often have you actually seen PDA's between same sex couples. Does PDA between straight couples offend you as well? I would much rather see two people who care about each other show it, regadless of sexual orientation, than watching couples arguing and fighting in public, which seems to happen with even more regularity.
- 5 votes
I feel pretty,
Oh, so pretty,
I feel pretty, and witty and gay,
- 3 votes
Hey Barb so are you saying that straight PDA is ok? stright couples perform random acts of PDA as much as gay couples do.and what are your saying your own brand of it is all that great. no offense sister but the only people who should be seen are in porns...BOOSHA!!! Oh and don't visit SC the only thing to see here is the occasional cow-tipping and tracter show...if you look close enough youll see two cousins making out...but I guess thats ok just so long as they aren't same sex trust me i live here and there ain't nothing all that great about it
- 2 votes
I feel pretty,
Oh, so pretty,
I feel pretty, and witty and gay!!!
- 4 votes
I am heterosexual and there are lot so PDA's by heterosexuals I don't want to see, so who is out there protecing me?
Your being rediculous, but I'm sure your little bigoted mind has to have something to grab onto.
- 1 vote
Maybe all forms of Public Displays of Affection should be made illegal. That way, there wouldn't be any question or issue. But then, we do that, we would take a step backwards in the evolution of our society.
Main problem with same-sex couples making a PDA is that it makes the "good, morally strong, parents" (please note the sarcasm) have to explain an uncomfortable subject to a child.
- 1 vote
Barbara-377589 wrote: "In response to Marcy, I don't think one can be "turned" gay, but I, for one, can be very turned off by their sometimes inappropriate behavior... "
So if you don't think one can be "turned" gay, I would assume it means you are born that way or at the very least don't have a choice in the matter.
With that said, you are really so completely insensitive, rude, and bigoted that you don't like someone because of something they didn't have a choice in? You must be a "Christian".
I live in Columbia, SC and sadly the state as a whole is not nearly as accepting as they should be. I have a lot of gay friends that do not feel super comfortable being themselves, but as soon as they cross state lines, they can be affectionate towards their partner. It has gotten better, but there is still so much room for improvement!
- 10 votes
Actually friend I think Sc is a little more accepting of the gay community then you think...I don't belive its gays that people have a problem with reason being is if you talk to your average gay guy odds are you won't be able to tell they are gay...What people have a promblem with is when someone dosen't decide to inform them as much as they smack them in the face...example being..I was riding in the car with one of my gay roomates during the last gay pride parade in columbia...there was a young man wearing nothing but a skin tight pair of shorts that came to his upper thighs..My roomate described how that was just stupid..now i point out another instance..Same roomate was at a red neck themed bar where many women were hitting on him.to fix this he went on the kareoke system and announced he was gay...most of the bar bought him a drink..one person had a problem had a problem with it and the bartender kicked him out of the bar.. please keep in mind this was orangeburg...its not homosexuality that peopel are really against i think..first of all people are trying to force SC into becoming more accepting...when you force this state to do anytihng it upsets us as much as it would most people...look at the civil war and all the segregation issues we had...This state has many good people in im reminded of that every day and i think change will come naturally to us you just can't force it...furthermore i think some of the gay communtiy shoots itself in the foot..for example the young man in the skin tight shorts...many homosexuals and lesbians though they say they want to be equal tend to seperate on the fact they are gay..not entirely their fault many gay men and women see the portrait of gays in the media and mtv and thikn thats what it is to be gay when there is only one thing that makes you gay..its not your sense of style or how you speak or the way you carry your body..its who you have fallen in love with.
Its a choice. And a sick one at that.
- 4 votes
This is always a good one to see.
Why would ANYONE want to choose to be persecuted and live a life where you have less rights than heterosexuals, where so many people disagree with your lifestyle?
The only poor choice gays are stuck with is trying to live a straight life, marrying someone they aren't truly attracted to, in an attempt to be accepted by the ignorant corners of society.
- 10 votes
I feel pretty,
Oh, so pretty,
I feel pretty, and witty and gay!!!
- 3 votes
Answer me this: it's the same question Kristo brought up. Why would someone choose to be gay? Does it offer any benefits? No. Do you get more rights? No. You get less. You get ostracized more, frowned upon more, beaten up, murdered, and disenfranchised. So... why would someone then CHOOSE to be gay? Well, if it's not for the benefits, then it's gotta be for love. And, as most people probably know, love is not something you choose. It just happens. Therefore, because love is not a choice, and there are no other variables, the syllogism is fulfilled. Being gay must therefore not be a choice, but a typical disposition. There's no other logic to it.
- 4 votes
marie, given you don't like Gay people then I could see them getting attention from not spending the entirety of their lives in denial might upset you but that would say more about you than them.
- 5 votes
Why would ANYONE want to choose to be persecuted and live a life where you have less rights than heterosexuals, where so many people disagree with your lifestyle?
spite for people who hate gays is becoming almost a good enough reason!
If they get a little more obnoxious I'm jumping the fence!
- 1 vote
They should let them in it's Hurrican seasone they might be able yo use the Dykes....Opps just a joke folks
- 2 votes
I am a Republican American. I am also a homosexual. Great Republicans like Dennis Hastert are going to bring out the truth of our party. McCain for President! "I want to pump YOU up ;)"
- 2 votes
I feel pretty,
Oh, so pretty,
I feel pretty, and witty and gay!!!
- 3 votes
Your gay and republican? Saying that is like saying I saw bigfoot
Our church technology guy is gay and Republican and Christian. His mama says that is how she brought him up so he can't be any other way. She is in her 80s. There is a group called the Log Cabin Republicans. They are an embarrassment to the party's right wing and their numbers are growing. Some Republicans are moderates. Some Democrats are conservative. A conservative Democrat is about like a Republican moderate.
- 3 votes
Actually you can be a christian and a faggot, you just don't think you can be but I only have to show you one to prove you wrong. Try logic some time. You'll need to clench your forehead but I'm told certain rangers have thought for themselves.
- 3 votes
would that be ........rump rangers?...... I just couldn`t help it.... : (
I think that it is wonderful that South Carolina has no Gays at all living there. They have accomplished things that no other area has been able to accomplish - the elimination of any Gay culture - and even those who are Gay swear to abstinence - what a wonderful place to live - a place of freedom - without any traces of racism or sexism or homophobia - so that those living there don't have to walk around being suspicious of everyone else because they are all the same - Wonderful.
Volcanoes, and hell- Yes, we all carry marshmallows at all times just for that reason. What a small mind.
- 5 votes
What does the ad really mean?
is it saying the state of S C is gay - meaning the majority of the residents are gay?
or
is it saying that SC welcomes gay visitors?
on a somewhat slightly different note, some kids reaching puberty some phase in their lives, experience an attraction to the same sex - i really dont think one should quickly assume that this child is gay or will be gay - all i am saying dont 'prod' the child in a certain direction if one is not sure why these feelings are being displayed....
- 2 votes
Actually I think they could mean happy...South Carolina is a happy state...has everyone forgotten that was the original meaning of gay...and queer used to be weird...you know what the right word for someone who sleeps with one of the same sex is homosexual...the add did not say that.honestly i don't know why people are getting there panties in a bunch for. And agree with your slightly different note on kids..To further your comment i think everyone has that one person they would switch sexual orintation for...for example.. im straight but find me Ewnen Mcgregor and if he sings id tackle him in an instant.. i know a gay man who would sleep with Faith Hill...Even my sports jock of a friend admitted he would jump the fence for a certain guy...funny little fact huh? and the explination of definitions was not meant as an insult...not sure if thats how it came across.
- 3 votes
I feel pretty,
Oh, so pretty,
I feel pretty, and witty and gay!!!
- 3 votes
What does the ad really mean?
The ad was making a play on all-too-common and ever jr. high school expression of "that's so gay" to mean something is lame. They wanted to show that something being "so gay" isn't a bad thing. They just picked a really stupid location for it.
Just heard a radio show out here in Seattle a couple of weeks ago with some "gay" or whatever teenagers. They were actually saying they preferred to be called queer! Go figure.
frosty - I think we get it - You are Julie Andrews. Or is it Natalie Wood. Marni Nixon? Carol Lawrence?
Or did you just watch "Anger Management" again?
- 2 votes
"Just heard a radio show out here in Seattle a couple of weeks ago with some "gay" or whatever teenagers. They were actually saying they preferred to be called queer! Go figure." - Marie Thomson
I would think it has to do with the fact that this younger generation isn't afraid of being "labeled". They want to convey that being gay/queer/homosexual/faggot is fine, that it's time for people to start worrying about really important stuff, not the stuff the government keeps throwing in everyone's face as a "hot" topic.
- 1 vote
Nothing has changed since 1861 except it Gay's that this homophobic state is after instead of their usual Black rasist campaigns. Once a red neck hillbilly always a red neck hillbilly
1) It's not a choice but a fact of life- and if all the God fearing folks believe in supreme omnipotence then by definition they have to accept it. Y'all can't pick and chose. And for the folks who don't know what omnipotence means .... If God is so great why did he make some folks like their own kind?
2) I'm glad to know SC is so bigoted. It might have been on my "to visit" list.
3) I agree that any display of affection might offend another person. Goodness sake, grow up - get over it.
4) Next we'll hear that SC believes that God created the world in 7 days .. and Adam and Eve and all that stuff ..... never mind the scientific facts
5) I do hope that SC runs a "don't come to SC" advert just to neutralize the possibility of any of those awful homosexuals spending money there ! How long will it take the idiot Governor and his dumb chums to realize just how much extra publicity they just attracted??
- 5 votes
Another one to just get over - Close the door and do what you want. Just don't do it in public.
Seems to me that the some real estate, or vacation industry business is running on dry, and they are doing anything to create an income, and it might create an income for someone, but they are doing business, and just looking to make some money, and someone who doesnt care for for other poeples opinion, morals of family values, and making wrong things seem like they are right. The business migh make money, but they will step over anything and not care whether they are hurting the society, nor do they care about the feelings of people who do try to raise their children in a world that is full of sin and fornication of all kind.
God created men and women not just to have sex, God created them also to produce children. Mens and womans body was created by God to fit each other perfectly. Two men and two women can't produce a child, that allready shows that it's not right. So in the end two men or two women are together for sexual enjoyment only, since they cant have children, and that is just as same as lust and only a sexual desire, and lust is a sin.
Nobody else's business?
Gay activists claim that homosexual activity is nobody's business other than those involved in the relationship. However, this is not true. God, our Designer and Creator, has authority over all aspects of our lives. He makes the rules, and He quite specifically forbids homosexual behavior.
*22 Thou shalt not lie with mankind, as with womankind: it is abomination. Leviticus 18:22;
The Bible not only describes homosexual behavior as detestable, but it also calls for the punishment of those involved (Leviticus 20:13). Their unrepentant attitude caused God to destroy Sodom and Gomorrah (Genesis 19:24-25).
Just as homosexual conduct has been punished in the past, so it will also be punished by God in the future.
*"…Neither fornicators, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor homosexuals, nor sodomites, nor thieves, nor covetous, nor drunkards, nor revilers, nor extortion ers will inherit the kingdom of God" (1 Corinthians 6:9-10).
- 1 vote
i am straight but not narrow. all the "christian" folks hatin' gays is just not religious. Gandhi said it best: "I like your Christ, I do not like your Christians. Your Christians are so unlike your Christ."
so many christians, not enough lions...
If God didn't make homosexuals there wouldn't be any!
marriage is a human right, not a heterosexual right
don't believe in gay marriage? don't marry a gay! problem solved
abstinence makes the church grow fondlers
and finally,
Holy Bible warning:
WARNING: This is a work of fiction. DO NOT take it literally.
CONTENT ADVISORY: Contains verses descriptive or advocating suicide, incest, bestiality, sadomasochism, sexual activity in a violent context, murder, morbid violence, use of drugs or alcohol, homosexuality, voyeurism, revenge, undermining of authority figures, lawlessness, and human rights violations and atrocities.
EXPOSURE WARNING: Exposure to contents for extended periods of time or during formative years in children may cause delusions, hallucianations, decreased cognitive and objective reasoning abilites, and, in extreme cases, pathological disorders, hatred, bigotry, and violence including, but not limited to fanaticism, murder and genocide.
- 11 votes
Mila,
The problem is that most of the biblical verses you sighted are from the Old Testament, which is based directly on a collected set of folk lore by Hebrew authors. The story of Sodom was regarding rape and disrespect of human dignity, not homosexuality. Careful. Careful. Also, your passage from Cortinthians has a key problem: the term homosexual wasn't created until quite recently, which means that that must have been a license that the translator took. I think the only true guide we can take on religosity comes from the Four Gospels, none of which support bigotry. Didn't Jesus himself help the cast-asides and down-trodden? Also, to your point about "be fruitful and multiply"--with our Earth already suffering from overcrowding and world hunger, is that really a motto to live by anymore? I think love should dictate relationships, not an outdated, mechanistic view.
- 3 votes
I feel pretty,
Oh, so pretty,
I feel pretty, and witty and gay!!!
- 2 votes
I get tired of "prooftexting" the fundamentalists, but when you take the Bible out of context, I feel it is necessary. It is part of our skewed society where the more openminded Christians don't read, understand, or accept the Bible as the Word of God, but the fundies do. The trouble is fundies don't take God's word in the historical and social context it was written in. "Abomination", in the Bible means "not kosher". God did away with kosher foods when Peter had his vision of the unclean animals before he went to Cornelius's house to tell the Gentiles about Jesus. In Leviticus the "man lying with man" issue was part of a dietary code---a portion of the Bible that today, in our context, is followed by Orthodox Jews, devout Muslims, and a weird holiness group with a foot long name in Atlanta that wears white and worships on Saturday (maybe a few other groups as well).
But you proof texted so I will proof text. Sometimes God says not to, as when the protestors appeared in front of my church last Sunday---two of them. We gave them bottled water and invited them to worship with us and stay for potluck. They called me a "fornicator". They judged me as gay because my church is mostly gay. But I stayed pure until my wedding day---at the age of 38. These folks think everything is bad. They were at Mardi Gras also. So we just loved them. (Our church went to Mardi Gras. We had a member whose house was on the route. We had fun and not a bit of fornication or drinking either.)
So here is the true story for the prooftexters. I can answer the other scriptures that you all like to take out of context too. Nothing more annoying than a "liberal" who knows the Bible is there??? But I am not really a liberal. I am a social justice moderate and I believe that most of what the Bible says happened, did happen. (That annoys liberals.) On Beliefnet's scale I am a 7, so don't prooftext, ok.
Ezekiel 16: 48-50
As surely as I live, declares the Sovereign Lord, your sister Sodom and her daughters never did what you and your daughters have done.
Now this was the sin of your sister Sodom: She and her daughters were arrogant, overfed, and unconcerned; they did not help the poor and needy. They were haughty and did detestable things before me. Therefore I did away with them as you have seen.
That sounds a lot like how conservatives treat people to me with all their emphasis on "personal responsibility". If it was not true they would lower the gas prices so we could buy groceries and get to work.
- 2 votes
In other words, if you really want to know what you have to do to get into heaven; take Christ's word (Matthew, 25:31 to end)
When the Son of Man comes in his glory, and all the angels with him, he will sit on his throne in heavenly glory. All the nations will be gathered before him, and he will separate the people one from another as a shepherd separates the sheep from the goats. He will put the sheep on his right and the goats on his left.
Then the King will say to those on his right, 'Come, you who are blessed by my Father; take your inheritance, the kingdom prepared for you since the creation of the world. For I was hungry and you gave me something to eat, I was thirsty and you gave me something to drink, I was a stranger and you invited me in, I needed clothes and you clothed me, I was sick and you looked after me, I was in prison and you came to visit me.'
Then the righteous will answer him, 'Lord, when did we see you hungry and feed you, or thirsty and give you something to drink? When did we see you a stranger and invite you in, or needing clothes and clothe you? 3hen did we see you sick or in prison and go to visit you?'
The King will reply, 'I tell you the truth, whatever you did for one of the least of these brothers of mine, you did for me.'
Then he will say to those on his left, 'Depart from me, you who are cursed, into the eternal fire prepared for the devil and his angels. For I was hungry and you gave me nothing to eat, I was thirsty and you gave me nothing to drink, I was a stranger and you did not invite me in, I needed clothes and you did not clothe me, I was sick and in prison and you did not look after me.'
They also will answer, 'Lord, when did we see you hungry or thirsty or a stranger or needing clothes or sick or in prison, and did not help you?'
He will reply, 'I tell you the truth, whatever you did not do for one of the least of these, you did not do for me.'
Then they will go away to eternal punishment, but the righteous to eternal life.
Enough said
- 4 votes
Fools! Gays make more money than you, dress better than you, take care of themselves better than you, basically do everything with far more class than you (neo-cons).
Let's see, would I rather be friends with a smelly 300 lb. hairy ignorant cretin, or a well educated, thoughtful and kind gay person?
Except for Charleston....SC is an ignorant dump anyway.
- 8 votes
I have had gay friends and they do have more to spend on themselves because they are very selfish and usually very unusually vain! Hooking up with other men insures that they won't have any children to have to share life (and money with) so they can spend everything they get on themselves.
Would you please prove they are better educated and make more money. I am doubtful because the gay guys I know claim they can't make as much money because they are out of the closet gays and have a more difficult time getting hired. Also, a lot are in the arts and communications (where I have met those I know) and those aren't high paying unless you are a superstar.
By the way, as an employer I would have to hire gays if they apply and no one else does, but I would not believe my customers would still come by. Most people (and I'm in liberal Seattle) do not wish to be around gays because, as one friend put it, they act so fruity.
Charleston seems like a good place to visit.
- 2 votes
Charleston is very nice, Marie. The thing is... I think we're confusing being gay with being flamboyant. Quite different. I don't think not having children is being selfish. Many gay couples adopt. In addition, many straight couples bring children into the world without the necessary funds to support them, or do so due to peer pressure. While I won't say that gay people are more educated simply because I do not have the study on me, I will say, according to an Issue of Time Magazine from April, that the more educated one is (in terms of college and post-graduate education), the more tolerant they are likely to be of gay marriage and gay rights. That's just my two cents. Again, I don't know about the more money thing, because that is true--many guys are in creative industries. Good question.
- 1 vote
To futher your comment my friend i love how alot of these fat hairy smelly rather mentally underfed individuals think that the homosexuals that keep themselves good clean and educated are only out to parden my use of the term...COrn hole em good and rough..yeee hawww
Seems to me that the some real estate, or vacation industry business is running on dry, and they are doing anything to create an income, and it might create an income for someone, but they are doing business, and just looking to make some money, and someone who doesn't care for for other peoples opinion, morals of family values, and making wrong things seem like they are right. The business might make money, but they will step over anything and not care whether they are hurting the society, nor do they care about the feelings of people who do try to raise their children in a world that is full of sin and fornication of all kind.
God created men and women not just to have sex, God created them also to produce children. Men's and woman's body was created by God to fit each other perfectly. Two men and two women can't produce a child, that all ready shows that it's not right. So in the end two men or two women are together for sexual enjoyment only, since they cant have children, and that is just as same as lust and only a sexual desire, and lust is a sin.
Nobody else's business?
Gay activists claim that homosexual activity is nobody's business other than those involved in the relationship. However, this is not true. God, our Designer and Creator, has authority over all aspects of our lives. He makes the rules, and He quite specifically forbids homosexual behavior.
*22 Thou shalt not lie with mankind, as with womankind: it is abomination. Leviticus 18:22;
The Bible not only describes homosexual behavior as detestable, but it also calls for the punishment of those involved (Leviticus 20:13). Their unrepentant attitude caused God to destroy Sodom and Gomorrah (Genesis 19:24-25).
Just as homosexual conduct has been punished in the past, so it will also be punished by God in the future.
*"…Neither fornicators, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor homosexuals, nor sodomites, nor thieves, nor covetous, nor drunkards, nor revilers, nor extortion ers will inherit the kingdom of God" (1 Corinthians 6:9-10).
in response to Mila.
*"…Neither fornicators, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor homosexuals, nor sodomites, nor thieves, nor covetous, nor drunkards, nor revilers, nor extortion ers will inherit the kingdom of God" (1 Corinthians 6:9-10).
wow, God said that? guess heaven is pretty darn empty.
"I like your Christ, I do not like your Christians. Your Christians are so unlike your Christ."
Holy Bible warning:
WARNING: This is a work of fiction. DO NOT take it literally.
CONTENT ADVISORY: Contains verses descriptive or advocating suicide, incest, bestiality, sadomasochism, sexual activity in a violent context, murder, morbid violence, use of drugs or alcohol, homosexuality, voyeurism, revenge, undermining of authority figures, lawlessness, and human rights violations and atrocities.
EXPOSURE WARNING: Exposure to contents for extended periods of time or during formative years in children may cause delusions, hallucianations, decreased cognitive and objective reasoning abilites, and, in extreme cases, pathological disorders, hatred, bigotry, and violence including, but not limited to fanaticism, murder and genocide.
Republican preacher Stephen White, who demanded a return to traditional values, was sentenced prison after offering $20 to a 14-year-old boy for permission to perform oral sex on him. and
Republican anti-gay activist Earl "Butch" Kimmerling was sentenced to 40 years in prison for molesting an 8-year old girl after he attempted to stop a gay couple from adopting her. and last, benefactor of conservative Christian groups, Richard A. Dasen Sr., was found guilty of raping a 15-year old girl. Dasen, 62, who is married with grown children and several grandchildren, has allegedly told police that over the past decade he paid more than $1 million to have sex with a large number of young women.
so all these "religious" folks will get into heaven? what about the bible verses?
- 3 votes
Should we put warnings on the koran too. Bet you won't live to regret it if you do. At least Christians have some tolerance.
- 1 vote
Mila, why did you find the need to share this twice? My getting sick the first time I read it was enough.
When quoting the Bible it is nice to get the verse{s} correct. Check your Bible on 1 Corinthians. To make it easier, there is no place in the Bible that the word 'homosexual' is used. If it is in yours, you have a modern rewrite that was done for the simple that couldn't understand the King James. I'm sure that you are not one of those.
- 1 vote
Let all of these diseased mentalities move to London. Then our problem will be solved. America will never be a gay tolerant country, and with good reason. What is so wrong with the idea of the wholesome American family with a "MOTHER" and a "FATHER"? Why is it that liberals have been polluting societys minds for forty years with this degenerate filth and doing everything in their power to destroy that ideal? With the aid of the "AMERICAN COMMUNIT LAWYERS UNION" they have orchestrated a relentless campaing disigned to destroy morality in our society from within, disguising it as human rights. Sorry if a lot of us arent buying into it. The new American civil war is at hand and is happening right in front of us. "HOLLYWEIRD" is also a willing accomplice in this campaign. Television is even getting into the act with an openly gay storyline on one of its daytime shows via"CBS". Sorry to all of the hetrophobes in the crowd, but the time is growing near for the final act and it aint gonna be pretty. Americans are tired of the constnt beatdown of liberal philosophy and are a short time from making the "MAJORITY" opinion count.
The fact of the matter is, whether you like it or not, everyone in this country has rights,and gay people could probably care less about what you or others think. Close minded people like you keep this country from progressing further. And polluting societys minds? how about conservatives like you polluting peoples minds by spreading hate and thoughts of a supreme race. Believe or not, you are not special! what makes you so much better than everyone else? Your a true child of god? Give me a break. Maybe you should move to South Carolina where you would probably fit right in,while the rest of the country moves into the future instead of trying to preserve the past.
- 4 votes
"What is so wrong with the idea of the wholesome American family with a "MOTHER" and a "FATHER"?"
Here's a wholesome statistic for you...
43% of first marriages end within 15 years. Google it.
- 1 vote
That's because one of the partners is secretly gay. Just kidding, put down the gernade.
- 1 vote
"Be who you are and say what you feel because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind."
the late, great Dr. Seuss
- 6 votes
tyrone biggums
Finally someone makes a point without insulting others, good for you, more point making and less mean spirited talk (on both sides of the issue) is how you move people to
enlightenment. my complements
- 2 votes
My wife and I bought a house next to a gay couple (together for 20 plus years) and we are still waiting for our hetero marriage to fail. They also adopted a seven year old boy who had been sexually abused by his hetero father (perish the thought that 90% of molestation is done by heteros) and abandoned by his hetero mother. He could barely speak, had major anger issues and yet 10 years later he is a well adjusted 17 year old with a beautiful girlfriend. It just pains me to think I live in the same country with some of these wacko nut job right wing 'Christians' who are the most narrow minded people on the planet who are so driven by fear and their own repressed sexuality.
- 4 votes
The *problem* in America is not homosexuality. The problem is fear.
That is all.
Well, please don't suggest sending anymore to us in California!! We have PLENTY! The San Diego Gat Pride Parade is next weekend. I have not and never will attend, but by the pictures I have seen it is disgusting. And to make it worse the Ding Bats in the City have forced our Firemen and other city employees to participate. No one has enough nerve to rattle the gay vote. Anyway, SC, you made your bed, let the gays sleep in it!
- 1 vote
you really should avoid looking at those pictures. I worry about you. :)
- 1 vote
oh dear, there should be a check box for 'check grammar' - yikes - some comments here are badly structured...
doesnt anyone wonder why we have male and female and why those two are the only persons that can produce a child? the man carries the sperm the woman the egg...
How about a box to check for "proper capitalization" as well?
- 3 votes
The people making the comments are probably products of tax funded public skools. That would explain everything.
- 2 votes
People are not defined by their ability to produce offspring. Or are you suggesting those who are infertile aren't people?
- 3 votes
Part of bushes 'no child left behind policy", see how well it works. I love these people that write they don't hate gays but hate their lifestyle then in the next sentence call them perverse, evil and destroying society etc. If that is not hateful language what is?Hypocrites all of you, that's what you are. Yes dream-29255 there may be a war and if it happens I will fighting on the side of good against the bigoted, hateful, holier then thou Minorities such as you who think they have a right to control and tell the rest of Americans how to live their lives. You have NO RIGHT to legislate your OWn version of morality over someone else. You are not GOD you have NO right to Judge. Not even God himself judges, not the one I know. Scientific studies have proven without a shadow of a doubt that being Gay is not a choice, so despite what you want to think the facts show otherwise. Plus usually the ones that hates gays the most are the ones who are secretly gay but suppress it. Why would anyone choose that? Its hard enough being straight I can vouch for that I can only imagine how difficult it must be to be Gay, especially when it comes to dealing with idiots like you.
- 1 vote
I don't see what diference its going to make what the tourist in S.C. do sexually. The gay dollar is as green as anyone else's. G.W. Bush hasn't quite made us the most popular place to visit either; in the worlds eyes, gay or straight. Biggotry and hippocracy does have a price to pay and for the service industry people of S.C. I hope we sell out cheap.
- 2 votes
I live in SC, have worked in advertising and I loved the ad campaign. The average household income for gay households is 50% - 60% higher than the national average household income. Gay couples also have more disposable income and tend to spend more when they travel, especially in places where they are treated with respect. They tend to be better educated and more appreciative of history and art - both of which SC has in abundance. Our economy needs tourism dollars. I think all the uproar and nay-saying is a knee-jerk reaction to the loud, right wing conservatives who are desperately trying to convince themselves it's still 1950. I say put out the welcome mat and have some sweet tea waiting.
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